We always see problems as problems, we blame the bringer of the problem, our family friends, even god. Yet, we always fail to see problems from another perspective. 

Sometimes instead of blaming the root of the problem, we shld look at problems and try viewing them as nice problems. This saying sounds pretty much cliche: Problems are created for a purpose, and problems makes us stronger if we overcome them.

However cliche it may sounds, nice problems are created for such purpose, and nice problems helps us see things via new perspectives that we might not hav thought of before.

Thus, instead of whining and complaining over problems we face everyday, I think I shld try to teach myself of viewing problems as nice problems......

On another hand, today people closest to me were sad and then I felt sad too. I hate feeling helpless when there's nthng i can do to cheer people i love. And, I hate feeling insecure too. Not the kind of relationship insecure I'm talking about, but this insecurity about schoolwork.... Sometimes I wonder do I set too high expectations? Or am i way below expectations?